A critical incident occurred yesterday.  Maybe you heard about it.  An infant was shot dead in his stroller while out with his mom.  Two teenagers were just arrested.  This incident has shocked our sleepy (and normally safe) community.  This incident shocked our first responders too.

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Our CISM team was requested to assist the first responders.  We joined the efforts in providing “psychological first aid” to those that were on-scene.  I was requested to work the dispatchers.  Dispatchers are the brave souls on the other end of the 9-1-1 call.  “9-1-1: What’s your emergency?”  They hear it all…I found out today.

“I’d like to order a pizza…,” I joked with them.

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“Oh yeah, I’ve taken that call,” one dispatcher said.  “We’re 9-1-1 … 4-1-1…anything you need at that moment…that’s what we are.”  The people in this group are all female…girls actually.  They are young; at least they look young.  I ask them how long they’ve been on the job…”years” they each tell me.

“Not everyone could do this job,” one lady adds.  I whole-heartedly agree.  I inquire about the hardest parts of the job.

“We can’t see it,” she says.  “All we get to do is hear it.”

This reminds me of Alfred Hitchcock, I say.  They are so young, so I ask them if they know who Alfred Hitchcock is.  They nod their heads.  I read somewhere that Hitchcock movies were so terrifying because you don’t see the gore, you don’t see the horror … you only hear it happening.  Hitchcock was brilliant because he knew that if he could simply supply the scene and sound that the brain would fill in the gory details and paint a far worse picture than he could ever film.

The dispatchers agree.  The images in their minds are far worse than any scene on the street.

This point is important for those in crisis response:  DON’T FORGET DISPATCH.  The responders on-scene certainly have the “sensory information” that impacts the stress response.  But the dispatchers have their imagination…and, as Hitchcock understood, the mind is capable of imagining something far worse than reality.